The Oil
From my wounds
How Pain becomes Anointing: A journey of Betrayal, Healing, and Wholeness in God
If you’ve ever been abandoned, betrayed, rejected, or left carrying silent pain while still trying to hold on to God, The Oil From My Wounds was written for you.
This book is a raw and Jesus-centered journey through heartbreak, healing, forgiveness, surrender, and restoration—showing how God can still produce oil from the places that wounded you most. Through biblical truth, personal testimony, and honest reflections, it reminds women that pain does not disqualify them from purpose, intimacy with God, or becoming whole again in Christ.
This is more than just a purchase—it is an investment into your healing, clarity, confidence, emotional strength, and spiritual restoration. The lessons inside are not only meant to comfort you for a moment, but to help you rebuild your mindset, deepen your walk with God, and carry wisdom that will stay with you long after this season has passed. You will come out dignified, sanctified, restored, confident, soft and new.
Because healing done with Jesus does not only change your pain—it changes your future. It restores the very identity that betrayal, abandonment, pain and trauma has stolen, killed and destroyed in you.
As Jesus said in John 10:10: The thief (the enemy, the devil) comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.
Your pain does not define you—God’s presence does. The Oil From My Wounds is your invitation to stop striving, stop pretending, and start being healed by Jesus. This is not about making someone return, or fixing what was lost; rather, it’s about restoring you to your original place, authority, and wholeness in Him. Step in, and let His anointing flow through the very wounds that once broke you.
Chapters
CH1
How This Season Unfolded
When Perfect Breaks
The Hidden Affair Of The Heart
When The Truth Hurts All Over Again
Why Boundaries Matter In Marriage
The Seed Of Bitterness In My Heart
Spiritual Silence And Isolation
The Shadow That Followed Him
Hence, I Have Decided. The Cycle Stops Here
CH2
How God Taught Me To Handle The Betrayal
Sitting With Pain
How It Looks Like
On Emotions, Honesty, And Bringing It All To Jesus
The Secret Place: The Room Where I Meet God
On Healing Not Being Linear: When Faith Meets The Brain
Triggers And Integration
Wholeness As A Result Of Healing
CH3
The Importance Of Rooted Support System
When God Sends People To Carry You
Why A Strong, Word-Rooted Support System Matters
Not All Advice Comes From Revelation
Signs Your Circle Is Helping Or Hindering Your Walk With God
Be Intentional With Your Circle
CH4
Rediscovering Your True Identity And Worth
Who Am I?
When Identity Is Tested By Loss
Learning To Live From A Restored Identity
Why It Is Difficult To Grasp This Truth
Gentle Transition To Inner Work
CH5
The Conviction For Inner Change
The Involvement Of Inner Work
Can I Actually Do That?
Walls That Need To Be Taken Down
How Toxicity Appears In The Picture
Do Not Expect An Apology
On Detachment
Your Husband Is Not Your Assignment
Choose To Really Be Healed
CH6
Forgiveness And Release
Why Forgiveness Is Hard
The Truth About Revenge
Forgiving Seventy Times Seven
Suppressing Anger And What Happens Next
Forgiving Yourself Too
Praying For Your Offenders
CH7
The Importance Of Your Obedience
Obedience Is Essential
When God Calls You To Lead While You Are Still Hurting
When The Enemy Strikes
When Temptation Hits: A Response Plan For The Healing Woman
A Word Of Restoration For The Stumbled
Conclusion
This is a space for women who are ready to stop pretending and start being healed, getting their confidence and true identity back. The Oil From My Wounds is not about fixing relationships or chasing what was lost; rather, it’s about returning to your original place in Jesus, discovering your true identity, and letting God’s anointing flow through the very wounds that once hurt you. Step inside, and let His presence meet you right where you are.
“From pain to anointing: your journey to wholeness in Jesus starts here"